MOVE on, KEEP GOING~:)

This was the day I thought I could have a good-so-fine sleep after spending three consecutive busy nights with my phone and PC but then I was wrong. Time really moved fast today, so fast that I didn’t anticipate that I am 30 minutes late for my 7:00 Pm class with Peter Yang. I went to the hospital to visit CHINEE – a high school friend of mine – because she had a broken ankle Operation yesterday, but this is not what I’ll blog today [still waiting for the pictures to be uploaded].

I received a text message from a PUP friend in which if you’ll go detail by detail you’ll see how ANGRY he was because of his Gf’s BETRAYAL. He refused to tell me anything maybe because it still hurts? – And that’s kept me hanging.  I easily Jump to the conclusion that his GF flirted, sexed, or whatsoever annoying action word with someone. Maybe I’m so so over-reacting for this but WTH, its super abnormal for a girl to do that but if guys did the same thing, it is accepted. It’s just INNATE.  

Why do boyfriends and girlfriends, lie to each other? Is this TRUE LOVE after all?

Our romantic relationships are seldom what they seem. We all want a relationship that is built on openness, intimacy, and trust, but the truth is, our relationships do not always work that way. More often than not, our intimate relationships involve secrecy and deceit. In fact, if you want to look for deception and betrayal in your own life, the best place to start is close to home. Boyfriends and girlfriends, often lie about their true feelings for each other, the feelings they have for others, and their level of commitment. Indeed, it is safe to say that we people save their biggest and most serious lies for those they love. Lying to a romantic partner helps us deal with the constraints that our intimate relationships impose. Quite frankly, deceiving a romantic partner turns out to be the most efficient and effective way of maintaining the rewards we get from our romantic relationships while pursuing extra-relational goals and activities behind a partner’s back.

In Mere say, DECEPTION and BETRAYAL are just the norms of the society but these shouldn’t be practiced all the time only if they’re for the betterment of the relationship. We have to be prepared for this cause we PEOPLE are FRAGILE that’s why when we got hurt and deceived we TEND to be BITTER! But that’s not what life is after all. We have to go on, move on, and keep on going because until then we will realize how happy it is to be in love!